Well how would you feel if someone told you needed to lose weight? Let’s just say you’re not chubby but actually heavy-set.
The alleged critic is family; somewhat concerned.
Critic: Hey, are you like pregnant or something?
Victim; No (blushing fervently)
Critic: Owh, you should take care of your weight. It will only become difficult as you age, look at how lovely your mom looks even at this age. You should be more like her.
Victim: *nods* (still blushing)
Assuming you were this victim, early thirties, waistline at an awfully unhealthy proportion, would you retaliate?